Being Sir

While I acknowledge that a triad relationship is innately very difficult (even more than normal relationships, which are hella, stupid hard), I sometimes think Sir has it the hardest.  I'm sure the grass is always... harder...? on the other side, but... We had a rough weekend.  We've all been sick, like, seriously, passing viruses around.  … Continue reading Being Sir


Today is better.  Sir stepped things up today and it helped. The dishes are done and put away.  The laundry is done and put away.  The kitchen is clean.  The house is swept.  The fridge has food in it for the week.  I finished all of my school work that I needed done for tomorrow. … Continue reading Ease

Helpless – SFD

"Lia..." I set my jaw stubbornly and swipe open the news story.  People shot, politicians, at a baseball practice, government leaders reaching across the aisle to express sympathy, shared calls for unity and humanity. Sir has already warned me twice.  I'm not to be on devices today.  "No screen time," he said this morning, "You … Continue reading Helpless – SFD

Top Drop

So... for some of my readers this is going to be S/M 101, sorry...  Most of the readers I know of aren't super hardcore into the kink scene so I need to make sure I explain terms (if this bores you, of course, do move on...) So, when people "play" heavily, so... that could be … Continue reading Top Drop

Of Two Minds

I have to be quick tonight because I'm running late and only have fifteen minutes to write. I'm running late because a ridiculous number of incidents occured resulting in me not leaving work until 5 (I start at 7), coming home, eating dinner, then talking to my mom on the phone for an hour and … Continue reading Of Two Minds