We went away last night so I'm behind a post, but it was totally worth it! Sir planned it without telling us, he just said on Saturday morning to pack a bag for overnight and we got in the car. We stayed in a fancy hotel in the mountains, and we hot tubbed and we … Continue reading Empathy and Puritans
BDSM
Weary
Sir is going to meet with K on Friday night. He's going to get beaten. It's a thing they do, and... I've made peace with it in the past, but this time it's upsetting me. Sir and I have talked this through and he wants me to write about it now. I talked to Sub … Continue reading Weary
Presumption – Rant
There's a phenomenon I have observed in the kinkyverse. In my observation it disproportionately (though not exclusively) affects men (of the dominant persuasion) rather than women (of the dominant persuasion), and it is one of those hot buttons that instantly makes me clench up and want to punch someone in the face. Fortunately, Sir has … Continue reading Presumption – Rant
Out of Place
Depression is trying to grab hold of me again today, so I'm fighting it... with all the energy that hasn't already been sucked into depression. So... mostly I'm sitting here resisting curling up in front of the TV. Hooah! I had a pretty busy week for a summer week when I'm not working, and I … Continue reading Out of Place
Moments with Sir – Can’t?
Sir recently discovered that my new blog theme has emoji buttons at the bottom of posts and decided to go through all of my posts and "like" them with the emoji buttons. I found this both silly and mortifying and, without thinking said, "No, you can't..." I caught myself and stopped, but... not soon enough. … Continue reading Moments with Sir – Can’t?
Awakening
Sir and I played today. It was an impromptu thing and ended up spreading across three rooms and a hallway before we ended up in bed (we don't have sex, I mean literally ended up in bed - cuddling and aftercare). It was a kind of a wild, totally unplanned series of events, and Sir … Continue reading Awakening
Helpless – SFD
"Lia..." I set my jaw stubbornly and swipe open the news story. People shot, politicians, at a baseball practice, government leaders reaching across the aisle to express sympathy, shared calls for unity and humanity. Sir has already warned me twice. I'm not to be on devices today. "No screen time," he said this morning, "You … Continue reading Helpless – SFD
