Empathy and Puritans

We went away last night so I'm behind a post, but it was totally worth it!  Sir planned it without telling us, he just said on Saturday morning to pack a bag for overnight and we got in the car.  We stayed in a fancy hotel in the mountains, and we hot tubbed and we …

Weary

Sir is going to meet with K on Friday night.  He's going to get beaten.  It's a thing they do, and... I've made peace with it in the past, but this time it's upsetting me.  Sir and I have talked this through and he wants me to write about it now. I talked to Sub …

Presumption – Rant

There's a phenomenon I have observed in the kinkyverse.  In my observation it disproportionately (though not exclusively) affects men (of the dominant persuasion) rather than women (of the dominant persuasion), and it is one of those hot buttons that instantly makes me clench up and want to punch someone in the face.  Fortunately, Sir has …

Out of Place

Depression is trying to grab hold of me again today, so I'm fighting it... with all the energy that hasn't already been sucked into depression. So... mostly I'm sitting here resisting curling up in front of the TV. Hooah! I had a pretty busy week for a summer week when I'm not working, and I …

Moments with Sir – Can’t?

Sir recently discovered that my new blog theme has emoji buttons at the bottom of posts and decided to go through all of my posts and "like" them with the emoji buttons. I found this both silly and mortifying and, without thinking said, "No, you can't..."  I caught myself and stopped, but... not soon enough. …

Awakening

Sir and I played today.  It was an impromptu thing and ended up spreading across three rooms and a hallway before we ended up in bed (we don't have sex, I mean literally ended up in bed - cuddling and aftercare).  It was a kind of a wild, totally unplanned series of events, and Sir …

Helpless – SFD

"Lia..." I set my jaw stubbornly and swipe open the news story.  People shot, politicians, at a baseball practice, government leaders reaching across the aisle to express sympathy, shared calls for unity and humanity. Sir has already warned me twice.  I'm not to be on devices today.  "No screen time," he said this morning, "You …

Top Drop

So... for some of my readers this is going to be S/M 101, sorry...  Most of the readers I know of aren't super hardcore into the kink scene so I need to make sure I explain terms (if this bores you, of course, do move on...) So, when people "play" heavily, so... that could be …

Dribble Drabble Black Fire

It's been a rough week.  I feel too worn and raw to post about life today.  But I have this stupid every day posting commitment that SOMEBODY thought was a good idea (Nice job ghost of Shadow past...), so I'm going to write a story snippet. I hate this.  I hate sharing writing at all, …

Moments with Sir – Ownership

This is something I wrote for the list I run... I don't think I ever published it here.  I think I intended to, but just never felt motivated enough to "clean it up" and make it more neat and tidy for this posting. Then I was talking with my friend S, and telling her about …